Baby Mama Drama!!!!!!!!!!

This image was taken from Amazon where I suggest if you have a crazy ass pyscho baby mama in your life you go purchase this book.

don't let this fool make you take off your crown for a Battle Royale. Instead you must allow her to tumble mindlessly into the moat and drown in her own foolishness."~Ayesha J. Gallion

I often let the drama that my ex BM throws my direction drive me crazy...it is so toxic that I feel like I am just thrust into a battle that I am far more educated to be involved with. However I am human and thus get filled with the rage and emotion of wanting to just slap the taste out of her mouth and then poof something brings me back to reality and reminds me that this is HER problem not mine.
She is a 6 year old ex that obviously thinks the divorce happened yesterday? She gets joy out of acting like a child and texting me juvenile messages, talking random crap online and to her friends. She is forever trying to make herself the victim.

Why do I care or feel the need to defend myself? I have no frickin' clue - However I learn from her, I learn how not to behave in public, I learn how not to be bitter, and mostly I learn how to laugh my ass off at the stupid way she trys to save face and act like WE dont bother her...mostly what I should learn is how to just ignore her and remind myself everyday that this is not about her and me or even her and my fiance but rather it should be all about their two kids whom she allows to fall into the cracks for her stupid bruised ego!

Lesson learned - Baby Mama drama is what you allow it to be! Beat her at her own game - Ignore the Bitch!

LOL

Confessions of a Slacker Mom...

Confessions of a Slacker mom...by muffey mead-ferro

I have to be honest this book started out dry...I didnt think I was going to get anything from it...by the time I was done It dawned on me - Damn that lady is absolutely correct! We shelter our kids so much that WE f' them up for the real world. We dont let them fall down because they might get hurt (right a natural consequence) We give them all trophy's to make everyone feel equal (um not right this complex world does not allow for equality in most things - okay in nothing!) We dont allow them to see that their is a hierarchy to everything and that there are natural consequences to all you do in life.

My daugther is a perfect example, I did everything I could to give her a well rounded life. I kept her out of harms way, I made sure she always felt validated, I always made her feel that she could do anything she put her mind to....here's the shitty reality I f'd her up! I should not of have validated her every emotion because now she is a drama demon and if I dont show some type of concern for her every waking minute she goes into some self induced teenage dramatic depression. Second mistake making her think she was good at everything and that she could do anything when the crappy reality is that NO ONE is good at all things and NO ONE I dont care who you are can truly be ANYTHING you want to be. The reality is we are all good at hopefully at least one thing.

We can either focus a little attention to everything or alot of attention to one good thing!

enough said! stop f'ing up your kids America - NO ONE IS PERFECT!